To go deep with the person, inquire about the person’s definitions of terms, how she understands what she’s talking about, and what he is assuming without questioning. Surface conversations skim over a person’s words assuming that the other person uses his words in exactly the same way you do. Deeper conversations don’t make that assumption, but recognizes that each person operates from her linguistic definitions.
When things go wrong. The solution is now at hand- let’s find out what’s missing or what’s interfering. If something is deficient, let’s fulfill it. If something in interfering, let’s identify it and replace it.
~ Article by DrL.Michael Hall and Shawn Dwyer ~ Finding, building, developing, and applying resources to a problem or the person is perhaps NLP’s par excellence contribution for creating solutions.That makes it inherently a solution focus approach as a Meta-Coach. When you learn NLP, you learn […]
~ Article by Dr.L.Michael Hall and Mr Shawn Dwyer ~ While the coronavirus (covid-19) is a new and unknown medical problem, and like the flu and other viruses, it is to be dealt with intelligently. The real pandemic that we’re facing today, however, is the pandemic of fear.What we […]
~ Article by Dr.L.Michael Hall and Mr Shawn Dwyer ~ Complete What We Start Setting goals is one thing, completing them is another. Success often depends more upon persistently staying with a goal than starting. In that way, when things get tough, you persevere and complete what you […]
When A Coach’s Needs Get In Your Clients Way – Ego ~ Article by Dr.L.Michael Hall and Mr Shawn Dwyer ~ It can happen. Your needs, drives, and unfinished issues can get in the way of your client reaching his or her goals or even experiencing an effective coaching session. […]
~ Written By Dr L.Michael Hall and Shawn Dwyer ~ Parent Shame Not All The Same Parents, when it comes to the emotional state of shame, all “shame” is not the same. There is healthy shame and there is toxic or dysfunction shame. On the […]
~Written by Dr.L.Michael Hall and Shawn Dwyer, ACMC ~ What does it mean to parent, to raise healthy children, to be a “good” parent? Attachment – While we can answer that question in lots of ways- at the heart of parenting is bonding. It is […]
FOR GENDER BIAS, RACIAL BIAS, SEXUAL BIAS, ETHNIC BIAS AND EVERY OTHER BIAS When it comes to biases— especially the social biases that dominate almost all human societies, competence is the solution. Consider how we have solved the problem of gender bias in The Coaching Centre. There is not a single […]
~ Article by Shawn Dwyer and Dr.L.Michael Hall ~ You Parent as You Were Parented! Parenting #101 – Would like to hear something really scary? You will tend to parent as you were parented. Now scream and get it out. That’s right, and a little more screaming, […]