for developing the kind of relationships with eating and exercising that gives us health, energy and vitality.

Self-Actualizing Attitude

THE SELF-ACTUALIZING ATTITUDE Are you looking for a better way to view the world? Perhaps consider a Self-Actualizing attitude! Then to detail that self-actualizing attitude, the following are listed for your consideration. 1) An open attitude. Open to the possibilities and potentials that clamor within, […]

Career and Life Coach

NLP – GETTING THE NLP ATTITUDE

NLP as an attitude. “NLP is an attitude, backed up by a methodology that leaves behind it a trail of techniques” Now if that is true, and I think it is, then what is the NLP attitude? And do you have it? Many, if not a great many, people trained in NLP do not have the NLP attitude. What explains that? There is in my opinion an understandable reason why that is the case.

Women talking to a life coach

Understanding fallibility

When you set a goal, a vision for your life or for this year – remember that you will be making mistakes. After all, you and I are fallible human beings. This is a good thing, a really good thing

Meta-Stating

With Meta-Stating, You Have A Meta-Scape

A big misunderstanding of Meta-States is that it is just academic or intellectual. Wrong! It’s wrong because every state is dynamic—it is alive, moving, fluid and it is comprise of emotions and somatic commitments. To understand this, let’s start with something simple like the learning state. When you are in a learning state, what is occurring?

social connection with NLP

THE ART OF GOING DEEP

To go deep with the person, inquire about the person’s definitions of terms, how she understands what she’s talking about, and what he is assuming without questioning. Surface conversations skim over a person’s words assuming that the other person uses his words in exactly the same way you do. Deeper conversations don’t make that assumption, but recognizes that each person operates from her linguistic definitions.

Unleashing Leadership

Coaching Blind Spots

~by Michael.Hall~ “In life, the person with the fewest blind spots win.” Farnam Street, The Great Mental Model “To know that we know what we know and that we do not know what we do not know, that is true knowledge” Confusius As a Meta-Coach, […]

YOU FAIL TO CHALLENGE

So the ultimate challenge is a challenge to your client’s frames.

So prefame things, “If we find a problem or something that you think is ‘the
dark side,’ I want you to know that you are not the problem. If there is a
problem, the frame is the problem.”