Good Life

The Values of a Good Life

It is living from the inside-out. That means that when you are living the good life, you are self-regulating, and make your own choices about life. You are living for those highest values-the being values.

for developing the kind of relationships with eating and exercising that gives us health, energy and vitality.

Self-Actualizing Attitude

THE SELF-ACTUALIZING ATTITUDE Are you looking for a better way to view the world? Perhaps consider a Self-Actualizing attitude! Then to detail that self-actualizing attitude, the following are listed for your consideration. 1) An open attitude. Open to the possibilities and potentials that clamor within, […]

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NLP – GETTING THE NLP ATTITUDE

NLP as an attitude. “NLP is an attitude, backed up by a methodology that leaves behind it a trail of techniques” Now if that is true, and I think it is, then what is the NLP attitude? And do you have it? Many, if not a great many, people trained in NLP do not have the NLP attitude. What explains that? There is in my opinion an understandable reason why that is the case.

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Understanding fallibility

When you set a goal, a vision for your life or for this year – remember that you will be making mistakes. After all, you and I are fallible human beings. This is a good thing, a really good thing

Meta-Stating

With Meta-Stating, You Have A Meta-Scape

A big misunderstanding of Meta-States is that it is just academic or intellectual. Wrong! It’s wrong because every state is dynamic—it is alive, moving, fluid and it is comprise of emotions and somatic commitments. To understand this, let’s start with something simple like the learning state. When you are in a learning state, what is occurring?

social connection with NLP

THE ART OF GOING DEEP

To go deep with the person, inquire about the person’s definitions of terms, how she understands what she’s talking about, and what he is assuming without questioning. Surface conversations skim over a person’s words assuming that the other person uses his words in exactly the same way you do. Deeper conversations don’t make that assumption, but recognizes that each person operates from her linguistic definitions.

Unleashing Leadership

Coaching Blind Spots

~by Michael.Hall~ “In life, the person with the fewest blind spots win.” Farnam Street, The Great Mental Model “To know that we know what we know and that we do not know what we do not know, that is true knowledge” Confusius As a Meta-Coach, […]

YOU FAIL TO CHALLENGE

So the ultimate challenge is a challenge to your client’s frames.

So prefame things, “If we find a problem or something that you think is ‘the
dark side,’ I want you to know that you are not the problem. If there is a
problem, the frame is the problem.”

THE “PROGRAMMING” OF NLP

The “PROGRAMMING” Of NLP There are lots of people who do not like the programming term in Neuro-Linguistic Programming. What is their problem? They have a semantic reaction to programming as if it means, and can only mean or carry connotations of, being “controlled, fated, […]

Unleashing Vitality

NLP AS A META-DISCIPLINE

~ Article by DrL.Michael Hall & Shawn Dwyer ~ When NLP began and before it was called NLP, it was called Meta. It was called Meta from 1971 to 1975 before it received the new name, Neuro-Linguistic Programming in 1976. Why Meta? Because of the […]

Meta-Stating

When Things Go Wrong

When things go wrong. The solution is now at hand- let’s find out what’s missing or what’s interfering. If something is deficient, let’s fulfill it. If something in interfering, let’s identify it and replace it.

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ADHD / ADD – CURSE OR BLESSING?

~ Article by DrL.Michael Hall and Shawn Dwyer ~ Coaching and training often brings us in close contact with people who have (or think they have) Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) or Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD). For nearly 25 years, our analysis is this- People are more […]

Cognitive Distortions

COGNITIVE DISTORTIONS AMONG PROTESTORS ~ Article by DrL.Michael Hall and Shawn Dwyer ~ For anyone who wants to protest something, if you want to truly win minds and hearts and bring change to a system, a community, or an organization- you’re going to have to use your […]

SOLUTION BUILDING VIA FINDING RESOURCES

~ Article by DrL.Michael Hall and Shawn Dwyer ~ Finding, building, developing, and applying resources to a problem or the person is perhaps NLP’s par excellence contribution for creating solutions.That makes it inherently a solution focus approach as a Meta-Coach. When you learn NLP, you learn […]

Fear free

The Real Pandemic – The Virus Fear

~ Article by Dr.L.Michael Hall and Mr Shawn Dwyer ~  While the coronavirus (covid-19) is a new and unknown medical problem, and like the flu and other viruses, it is to be dealt with intelligently. The real pandemic that we’re facing today, however, is the pandemic of fear.What we […]

Completing What You Start

~ Article by Dr.L.Michael Hall and Mr Shawn Dwyer  ~   Complete What We Start Setting goals is one thing, completing them is another. Success often depends more upon persistently staying with a goal than starting. In that way, when things get tough, you persevere and complete what you […]

Critical Thinking or its Lack When Communicating

~ Article by Dr.L.Michael Hall and Mr Shawn Dwyer  ~ Here are core distinctions of every professional communicator. Given that mastery involves making critical distinctions, how well do you make the following seven critical distinctions?  1) Map and Territory                   2) Person and Behavior 3) Meaning and Response          4) Sensory and […]

Seven Distinctions Of A Professional Communicator

~ Article by Dr.L.Michael Hall and Mr Shawn Dwyer  ~ While many people don’t seem to know what NLP is, the answer actually is very simple.  Most essentially NLP is a Communication Model and, Neuro-Semantics, as a development within NLP for higher quality and professionalism, is most essentially an […]

Ego Investment and Coaching

When A Coach’s Needs Get In Your Clients Way – Ego ~ Article by Dr.L.Michael Hall and Mr Shawn Dwyer  ~ It can happen. Your needs, drives, and unfinished issues can get in the way of your client reaching his or her goals or even experiencing an effective coaching session. […]