{"id":44619,"date":"2023-01-04T09:06:22","date_gmt":"2023-01-03T22:06:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thecoachingcentre.com.au\/the-shop\/?p=44619"},"modified":"2023-01-04T09:09:52","modified_gmt":"2023-01-03T22:09:52","slug":"homework-assignments","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thecoachingcentre.com.au\/the-shop\/homework-assignments\/","title":{"rendered":"Homework Assignments"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1>Homework Assignments<\/h1>\n<h4>8 part series on what not to do as a coach &#8211; Part 2<\/h4>\n<p>~By Shawn Dwyer and Dr Michael Hall ~<\/p>\n<h2>In coaching<a href=\"https:\/\/thecoachingcentre.com.au\/the-shop\/what-is-a-life-coach\/\">,<\/a> we do not tell.<\/h2>\n<p>The 2nd part to the series we learn there are homework assignments. You learned about assignments in Self Leadership when we say, \u201cGive your client the list of Cognitive Distortions and ask them to familiarize with them.\u201d After that, all you have to do is ask a discovery question, \u201cWhat distortions did you catch yourself using in telling about that event?\u201d Or, \u201cDid I just hear you personalize?\u201d This holds true for many things that you can task your client to do. Give them a handout on the specific meta-program which is over-driving a client. Give them a handout on a pattern that you\u2019ve used with them and ask them to do it several more times.<\/p>\n<h3>Third, there is feedback<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/thecoachingcentre.com.au\">.<\/a><\/h3>\n<p>Instead of telling, offer your feedback about how you are experiencing your client right now &#8230; in real time. \u201cAs you talk about X, my sense is that you really miss him and maybe you wish you could ask for forgiveness, I may not be getting that right, what do you think?\u201d Offering your perspective as yours and make sure you offer it tentatively.  This is one of the great gifts within the coaching relationship. Here you can \u201ctell\u201d that is, say what you feel like you need to say, without telling. 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