{"id":2871,"date":"2016-08-07T08:26:21","date_gmt":"2016-08-07T08:26:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thecoachingcentre.com.au\/the-shop\/?p=2871"},"modified":"2016-08-07T08:26:21","modified_gmt":"2016-08-07T08:26:21","slug":"feedback","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thecoachingcentre.com.au\/the-shop\/feedback\/","title":{"rendered":"Feedback"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/thecoachingcentre.com.au\/the-shop\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/image-2877134.jpg\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/thecoachingcentre.com.au\/the-shop\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/image-2877134.jpg\" alt=\"feedback\" width=\"7555\" height=\"2991\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-5842\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h1>Receiving Feedback<\/h1>\n<p><strong>&#8220;Feedback is the breakfast of champions.&#8221;<br \/>\n-Ken Blanchard<\/strong><br \/>\n\u2022 Do you receive personal and informal feedback like a pro?<br \/>\n\u2022 How does a professional receive feedback that shaped their skills into expertise?<br \/>\nAlmost <em>no one<\/em> has been trained in taking feedback effectively. So most of us do not know how. What about you? What do you need to know and understand about it and what do you need to be able to do in order to receive feedback effectively? Are you ready to step up to a new level of development and receive feedback like a professional coach? Is your &#8220;receiving feedback&#8221; well formed and ready to go? What state or states do you need to be in to most effectively receive feedback?<br \/>\nReceiving feedback effectively is a great leadership skill to help you transform your thinking and behaving into more productive ways of being in the world.<\/p>\n<h2>Feedback Skills<\/h2>\n<p>Among the key skills required to effectively receive feedback are the following:<br \/>\n\u2022 listening in an open way to receive the feedback.<br \/>\n\u2022 exploring in a curious and non-defensive way to the feedback.<br \/>\n\u2022 distinguishing language that is evaluative and that which is sensory based.<br \/>\n\u2022 asking for examples.<br \/>\n\u2022 asking about positive intention.<br \/>\n\u2022 except words as the other person&#8217;s perception.<br \/>\n\u2022 patiently persisting to translate the feedback so that it fits the criteria of well formed high-quality feedback.<\/p>\n<h2>The design in receiving feedback more effectively:<\/h2>\n<p>To be completely open to another person in receiving from him or her explicit and implicit message so that you feel safe to be open, honourable, to disagree, to correct the person and to fully express him or herself.<\/p>\n<h2>Operational definition in receiving feedback effectively:<\/h2>\n<p>Hear&#8217;s the words, sees the actions and gestures, and calibrates to the other persons state, notices and tracks the details of how the other person is coming across in presenting him or herself, considers or reflects on those responses when presented with verbal feedback, questions about it, and users what you find useful in order to improve your communication, facilitating skills and presentation. <a href=\"https:\/\/thecoachingcentre.com.au\/the-shop\/product\/coaching-essentials\/\">Leadership!<\/a><\/p>\n<h2><a href=\"https:\/\/thecoachingcentre.com.au\/the-shop\/product\/coaching-essentials\/\">Benchmarks For Receiving Feedback<\/a><\/h2>\n<p>1. Calibrates to the presence of a response in another<br \/>\n2. Silently reflects on the information presented<br \/>\n3. Breathes deeply in listening and acknowledging (stays clam)<br \/>\n4. Acknowledges the information given<br \/>\n5. Enquires about experience of an event or a statement<br \/>\n6. Asks about sensory evidence regarding information response offered<br \/>\n7. Explores what the words means to be the person<br \/>\n8. Expresses appreciation of information given<br \/>\n9. Uses and implements to make a change in your talk, tones, gestures, behaviours, and actions<\/p>\n<h2>The Gauge Of Competency<\/h2>\n<p>3.5 implements, uses<br \/>\n3.0 appreciation, means to you?, Sensory evidence, enquires about<br \/>\n2.5 acknowledged, calm, silent reflection<br \/>\n2.0 explains, disagree<br \/>\n1.0 discount, like you, talks over<br \/>\n0 walks away, disengaged<\/p>\n<h2>It&#8217;s Easy<\/h2>\n<p>So if you would like to learn and implement effective communication including quality feedback in your life, <a href=\"https:\/\/thecoachingcentre.com.au\/the-shop\/product\/coaching-essentials\/\">Coaching Essentials<\/a> is the program where you not only gain the knowledge but you are also guided through experiential practice for your personal and professional growth. <a href=\"https:\/\/thecoachingcentre.com.au\/the-shop\/product\/coaching-essentials\/\">Coaching Essentials<\/a> is being delivered in Orange, in April.\u00a0And the Coaching Centre &#8211; Australia, is where you learn highly effective communication skills and gain international certification in The <a href=\"https:\/\/thecoachingcentre.com.au\/the-shop\/product\/coaching-essentials\/\">Meta-Coach System<\/a>. 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