{"id":12149,"date":"2020-10-24T14:31:06","date_gmt":"2020-10-24T03:31:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thecoachingcentre.com.au\/the-shop\/?p=12149"},"modified":"2020-10-24T14:34:18","modified_gmt":"2020-10-24T03:34:18","slug":"nlp-programming","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thecoachingcentre.com.au\/the-shop\/nlp-programming\/","title":{"rendered":"THE &#8220;PROGRAMMING&#8221; OF NLP"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><H1>The &#8220;PROGRAMMING&#8221; Of NLP<H1\/><\/p>\n<p>There are lots of people who do not like the programming term in<br \/>\nNeuro-Linguistic Programming. What is their problem? They have a semantic<br \/>\nreaction to programming as if it means, and can only mean or carry<br \/>\nconnotations of, being &#8220;controlled, fated, mechanical, brainwashed, etc.&#8221;<br \/>\nOf course, the term programming arose in the early days of computer programming and was a metaphor for how we can become programmed linguistically in our neurology. So as we install programs in a computer, so also in human consciousness.<\/p>\n<p><H2>Do you have programs?<H2\/><\/p>\n<p>Has your family, education, religion, culture, etc. programmed you? The word &#8220;program&#8221; (from the Latin programma is made up of pro, &#8220;before&#8221; and graphein &#8220;to write&#8221;). It speaks about &#8220;an outline to pursue,&#8221; &#8220;a plan or procedure.&#8221; Computer programmers write codes which give a computer a way of functioning- processing information, pictures, sounds, mathematical symbols, etc.<\/p>\n<p>Similarly, the way you were taught to think, feel, speak, and act has given<br \/>\nyou your programs. As such you have programs for how to read and study,<br \/>\nprograms for getting along with others, for resolving differences, for<br \/>\nriding a bike, typing on a keyboard, etc. Actually you have thousands of<br \/>\nprograms which are now installed within you- in your very neurology. That&#8217;s<br \/>\nwhy once you have learned something very thoroughly (over-learned it), you<br \/>\ndon&#8217;t even need to be conscious of it to run the program. Now it can<br \/>\noperate unconsciously as a way of being in the world. program.<\/p>\n<p><H2>You have a program for shaking hands.<H2\/><br \/>\nYou were not born with it, it came as people repeatedly held out their hand and then shook yours<a href=\"https:\/\/thecoachingcentre.com.au\/the-shop\/human-programming\/\">.<\/a> That happened so long ago you probably have no memory of it. The repetition drove it in and now- lo and behold, someone holds out her hands as a greeting and out goes your hand to meet it. Ah, an unconscious automatic program!<\/p>\n<p>Your program for reading is even more deeply ingrained in you. When you<br \/>\nknow a language, you cannot look at words without reading them. While you<br \/>\ncould stop yourself from shaking hands on occasion for various reasons, you<br \/>\ncannot stop yourself from reading. It is that deeply automatic and now &#8230;<br \/>\noutside of your control.<\/p>\n<p><H2>If you don&#8217;t like the word &#8220;program,&#8221; think habits.<H2\/><br \/>\nOr think of them as automatic response patterns. You could think of them as the &#8220;instincts&#8221; that you have learned. That&#8217;s because, as everything habituates, what you learn (whether consciously or unconsciously) becomes installed in your<br \/>\nneurology. Some things, like repeated behavioral actions, are installed in<br \/>\nyour muscle memories. Now your muscles &#8220;know&#8221; how to do certain things.<br \/>\nOther things, like episodic memories, are installed in your long term memory<br \/>\nin your hypothalamus.<\/p>\n<p><H2>Programming Ourselves<H2\/><br \/>\nLinguistically and neurologically you and I have the ability to program<br \/>\nourselves with all sorts of response patterns. You can think of parenting<br \/>\nas the place where all of the original programming occurred. In this,<br \/>\nparents are programmers (which again should wake us up to the need for<br \/>\nanyone who parents to be required to get a certificate of competency!).<br \/>\nTeachers are programmers. And yes, the adolescence peer group are a set of<br \/>\nprogrammers (especially be aware of them!). But even worse, television,<br \/>\nmovies, and the internet are programmers and provide 24\/7 programming for<br \/>\nthose who expose themselves to them. Ah yes, the media is a programmer of<br \/>\nideas, thinking patterns, choices, values, lifestyle, etc.<\/p>\n<p>I think the idea of programming in NLP is great. It speaks about how a<br \/>\nlearning can become so ingrained, so installed, that it becomes an automatic<br \/>\nprogram. In other words, the learning and the changes that you make- you<br \/>\ncan keep for the rest of your life. Just program it in. But how? How does<br \/>\nthat work?<\/p>\n<p><H2>Unlearning and DeProgramming<H2\/><br \/>\nSometimes what you have to do is first do some de-programming. In other<br \/>\nwords, unlearning. If you have a program that is just wrong, if it doesn&#8217;t<br \/>\nwork, if it has become redundant and no longer relevant- sometimes you have<br \/>\nto undo the previous learning, uninstall the old meanings, in other words,<br \/>\nchange some beliefs. Then installing a new program and programming it in is<br \/>\na matter of learning. \u00a0Here repetition offers you one of the most dependent<br \/>\nmethods for programming in the new learning or meaning. \u00a0Here trance work is also another valuable method.<\/p>\n<p><H2>In NLP<a href=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/search?q=nlp&#038;oq=NLP&#038;aqs=chrome.0.69i59l2j0j69i59j0l4.502j0j15&#038;sourceid=chrome&#038;ie=UTF-8\">,<\/a> a primary way we do programming is via explicit patterns.<H2\/><br \/>\nA pattern is a program- a code for how to think, feel, speak, and act. It is a way to run your own mind-body system to achieve specific outcomes such as motivation, decision, empathy, resilience, and a thousand other states. A NLP pattern is a process that has been modeled and\/or developed that you can use to establish an inner code for a specific subjective experience. How&#8217;s your programming? Do you like it? 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